endless things

i dunno how far i can hold,

please let me go,

i dunno how strong i can be,

please dun test it,

i dunno how positive i can be,

please dun give me negative,

i dunno how much stress i can face,

please dont run an experiment on it,

i dunno how much fear i have now,

please dont think i m brave,

i dunno how much darken i can go,

please let my world shine,

i dunno how....

please...

我要的每一天

我要。。。 一张开眼睛， 就有一股力量。。。 对一天充满期待。。。 去做我爱做的事。。。 投入我有兴趣的东西。。。。的享受每时每刻。。。 开心。。。快乐。。。。 的过个充实的一天。。。

停！

我发觉人。。。

真的没有任何时候是没烦恼。。。

没压力。。。不担心。。。

很多事情都要想。。。都要顾虑到。。。

我在想要是我每时每刻都。。。有烦。。。有压力。。。有担心。。。或任何一种。。。

这样的人生。。。。

将会失去。。。享受。。。快乐。。。珍惜。。。活着。。。

人生。。。却是放不下的背包。。。没停过的忙。。。

或许。。。

我要真真的活在每当下。。。

体验人生的一却。。。

一步一步的走。。。

感觉活着的意义。。。

14 fundamentals of happiness

1. Be more active

2. Spend more time socializing

3. Be productive at meaningful work

4. Get organized

5. Stop worrying

6. Lower your expectations and aspirations

7. Think optimistically

8. Orient Yourself to the present

9. Work on a healthy personality

10. Develop an outgoing, social personality

11. Be yourself

12. Eliminate negative feelings

13. Develop and nurture close relationships because they are the number one source of happiness

14. Value happiness -put it first in your life

坚持的哲理

人生就像一场漫长的马拉松赛跑。他不在于速度有多快,而在于你能坚持多久。多一份坚持,就多一分成功的可能！

马拉松的乐趣在于体验一种自我挑战、超越极限及永不放弃的精神。当中最重要的意义就是当你精疲力尽,举步维艰的时侯,还能一步—步地到达目的地,完成目标,那种满足感和喜悦,绝对是超越一切,无法用言语来形容!

每一个人在生的道路上总会跌跌撞撞。无论是感情、学业、事业或在生活中都会面对失败与挫折,如果我们缺乏了坚持的心态,最后肯定 一事无成,庸庸碌碌的走完这一生。许多人在面对一些挫折的时候,就一蹶不振,不敢再去面对问题。小小的挫折就成为前进的绊脚石,轻易被困难打倒,从此就和 成功说再见!

文来自陈国强(资深辅导员)

10 个不嫁原因

1）我爱自由， 不喜欢被绑。。。。
2）我爱单身生活， 没有多一份烦恼。。。。
3）我对婚姻没有信心。。。
4）我对男人感到绝望。。。
5）我想过不一样的人生， 人生不一定要结婚。。。。
6）我相信没有永恒的爱情， 人是会变得，爱情不能保证不变质！
7）我不想增加人生的痛苦， 虽然我相信爱是甜蜜，但也相信爱会让人更痛苦。。。
8）我还没找到那个人， 能改变我的想法的人。。。。
9）我相信没有婚姻，我还是幸福，我还能快乐。。。
10）我知道我可能会感到孤独，孤单。。。但我会把孤独，孤单成为我的朋友。。。。

所以别怀疑我的坚持。。。我只是对婚姻有另一套的看法。。。我也相信我的想法不会轻易改变。。。因为它已成为我的人生观。。。。祝福我吧!

I am lost

recently many things happen, all keep accumulated into my small saturate heart.....i know maybe i will blow ....just the matter of time ...

time has keep me busy from managing myself......it make me no time to clear my toxic emotions....undoubted...i am stress this few days....i believe most of my coursemates have feel the same as well.....even though i still have time to sleep but it not adequate for me....sleep can help healing my mood....it did help.....when i take a nap this evening.......i feel myself alive after the nap.....i feel better....at least not a gloomy thought.....i dunno maybe i have some mild depression......but unseeable one......

in the mid of busy.....actually i feel lost...in term of what i really want and what i really done.....many things undone and messy in my life.....it was not organize.....deep in me .....i know something go wrong....but still haven figure out....i know i lost again.....a sense of helplessness came haunted me again.....everything seem to be fine at the surface....but i know inner me have many gloomy....with clouds shading the light of sun.....i dunno how to describe what happen....why i feel that....it simply adding of small pieces which i hardly mention the overall reasons....


i really feel gratitude to god for what i have now....i have a big family ...psykids.....all was my source of support......my parents for understanding me.....my best friend who i din really chat with her so long since i busy all the time......hope she will understanding me and it wont affect our friendship......i did scare....distance will cause us to be far....no only physical....but the time was the part.......but i believe we can held the strong bond since past have proof we did.....i know i need to find the source n find back myself.....i only need some rest.....before i begin the new journey.....