RELATIONSHIP

it is an interesting topic to talk....it relate to our life..Relationship can be with family, friends, spouse, colleague, +++ it mean an interdependent - which 2 person influence each other lives.......to maintain a relationship...it require skills+effort+commitment...it can be the tougher job to be able maintain a good relationship ...it seem follow roller coaster....up n down......sometimes relationship make us feel suffer.....bt something it bring us happiness....i cant imagine what life would be if without relationship???? no one is an island.it show us ..we can live alone in this world.....what if we cant have relationship wit other o fail in relationship test??? -it may end up loneliness......but i did feel loneliness sometimes in my life...i wonder whether i fail in form n maintain relationship....mb due to ...the reason i dun hav siblings...which my early experience without peer interpersonal learning....undenied...my childhood has lack something....even i hav my cousin and neighbour to play with me....it differ when u hav sibling which u hav to face them everyday...i did wish i has a older sister....which can guide me,protect me, and become my best friend...i do admire those who has sister....sister is the one who she had walk the path and open the way for u...which mean can hav a mentor ...who give n teach u experience of life...so great if i has a sis...it really sweet...which i can share my feeling..my life...my story with her....bt i dun have this luck yet....family is the early place where relationship form.....it where we first expose n form relationship wit parents......n it where the attachment came....it show degree of security experience in interpersonal relationship....it lead me to maslow need which security is one of our second stage of need.........imagine how strong the structure wit the weak foundation...therefore..we can see how important this early attachment to our later life...in social psychology attachment influence by self esteem(how we self evaluation) and interpersonal trust(belief other people)....both influence the attachment style one has.....for those we always form lasting and good relationship with other...undoubtly...they hav secure attachment with high self-esteem and high interpersonal trust....on the other hand....i hav a friend who low in self esteem and low interpersonal trust....she avoid close relationship...she unable form happy relationship with other......so sad she has the fear-avoidant attachment....while i think myself is with preoccupied attachment which i desire to form relationship but i scare i wil be rejected in relationship......it truth that i hav low self-esteem bt lucky i had high interpersonal trust..i trust everyone in the world is angel n i hate to see the devil side of ppl sometimes.......i believe trust is the basic requirement for forming relationship.....if u dun trust a person u wont even bother the person.......besides relationship wit family...the other important relationship is friendship....it belief it easy to form it but hard to keep it well.....i had one friends which i noe for nearly 11 year..i know her since primary 4...during that time i thought i hav found a best friend...bt..the friendship fade with time...nw we seem only facebook friend...only chat one a yr....n haven meet again in 3 yr....then..i again meet a best friend at my secondary school...we have know for 8 yr....now we still best friend...i glad i had one....we spend time together (now become less coz distant barrier) ....i usually speak us and we ....we plan so this n that.......i will talk to her when i down as well as i m happy...she always lean me her ears n her shoulder when i sad....when i in front of her.......i act moderate....i totally myself........i tel her anything of my life.....bt since i busy wit all those assignment, activities , exam....it has reduce time we chat n talk...........n we cant hang out as usual....i wish this obstacle wont make our friendship go downpour.......
relationship is very common to our life...it our everyday life...that mean we will form relationship , manage, and maintain relationship from time to time.....do u ever think relationship wit other is like some kind of god creation.....it a gift for us....god wont make us walk alone in the life path...so do appreaciate every relationship we have..............